Divorce and Break-ups

If your relationship has left you hurt, bewildered, confused, bitter, disappointed, angry, rejected, broke, broken, or any or all of those, you may be feeling as if you will never get over it. Relationship Recovery is possible, with a little help (or a lot of time).

Relationship break-ups can be one of the hardest things we have to face in life. Whether you are going through a divorce after many years, facing infidelity, nursing a broken heart, feeling utterly rejected or guilty, or all of these things, I understand your pain.

Right now you simply can’t even imagine ever getting over it. At some level you know that if you hang in for long enough, you will eventually recover. The question is how do you get by in the meantime? You could wait for time to heal all, or you could get some help.

Perhaps you feel it is a sign of weakness to get help, or that nobody will ever be able to help you. Neither are true. You will be able to trust again, everybody needs help from time to time and millions of people have been where you are now and gone on to a happy and peaceful life with wonderful relationships.

Relationships are where we learn our hardest life lessons, so it is not surprising that they aren not the fairy tales that we are often led to expect! Sometimes it can be difficult to figure out what we have learned, assimilate the lesson into our lives, and allow the whole experience to make us stronger.

The really tough part, though, is that if we don’t do that, we are likely to keep repeating the same mistake over and over again! In some cases there are ‘attachment issues’ and very often inner child healing can deal with this.

For help in getting your life back on track after a relationship break up, or for help in discovering how to avoid going around the same relationship ‘mountain’ again and again, contact me via email or telephone in Surrey.

The mind is a wonderful slave, but a terrible master! In order to be the master of our lives and destinies, we must first become master of our own minds!